By: Julie Shifman, President Act Three (guest blogger)
www.actthree.com
Women leave the work force in large numbers to raise children and many at some point in their lives want to go back to work. Usually, they go back when their family responsibilities have lessened to allow adding a job to their busy lives. But, the current economic situation (retirement plans decreasing in value, husband’s income down, college education more expensive), is causing many women to ask themselves whether now is the right time to return to work.
Bobbie is just such a woman. After her second child was born, she left her good job as an analyst for a brokerage company to become a stay at home mom. Over the last ten years, she has been very active in her children’s school, her church and in community work. She always thought she would go back to work when the kids were in high school but now that her husband’s bonus was reduced, she is wondering if she should start looking now. On the other hand, her children are still in middle school and she wants to be home after school.
Janet, like Bobbie has been a stay at home mom for eight years. Previously she had been a marketing director at a major PR firm. Lately as her children have needed her less, she is feeling the need to be more intellectually engaged. In her words, “We are lucky enough that I don’t really have to work for the income, but I just feel that there is something more I want to accomplish”.
We asked Bobbie and Janet to use the following quick and easy test to help assess whether they were ready to go back to work. Their answers are noted next to the questions.
ARE YOU READY
Scoring: on a scale of 1-5, rate how much you agree with each statement, with 5 being totally agree and 1 being I don’t agree at all. Write the number next to the statemen
- My children don’t need me as much anymore (Bobbie – 2, Janet-5)
- I sometimes feel as if I am wasting time (Bobbie-3, Janet -4)
- I worry that I will not accomplish all I am capable of (Bobbie -4, Janet -5)
- I am willing to work for less money than I used to make (Bobbie -4, Janet-3)
- If a job dropped into my lap, I would take it (Bobbie-3, Janet-5)
- I do not have volunteer work that keeps me fully engaged (Bobbie-2, Janet-4)
- I want to feel like I am contributing to my family income (Bobbie-4, Janet-2)
- I am willing to give up some of my hobbies/volunteer work (Bobbie-3, Janet-4)
- My family would fully support me returning (Bobbie-5, Janet-5)
- We could really use an extra income right now (Bobbie -5, Janet -2)
Add up the total, (counting the answer for number 10 twice).
A score of 40-55 indicates a strong motivation to return
A score of 30-39 indicates substantial thinking to truly assess readiness
A score of 29 or below, indicates putting it off for now as motivation is low
Bobbie scored a 40, at the very low end of “a strong motivation to return.” But when we closely examined her answers it was pretty clear that the high score came almost entirely from monetary concerns… from her husband’s desire for extra money (and therefore his wish for her to return to work) and her desire to help out more financially. Through coaching and more exploration, Bobbie realized that she really wasn’t ready just yet. Instead, she came up with a plan to reduce household expenses for the next year. Then she made a pact with her husband that after that year she would seriously begin to think about returning. And in the meantime, we made a plan so that Bobbie could find ways to improve her skills so that she would be ready to jump back in when the time was right.
Janet also scored a 40. In examination it was clear that even though Janet only scored a 40, she actually had a very strong desire to return to work. It is just that her motivation is coming for reasons of self fulfillment and not for monetary reasons. So we worked with Janet to create a “back to work” plan. This included assessing her current skills and interests, matching those with particular jobs she would enjoy, creating a resume’ and helping her learn to network and interview effectively. Her goal is to land a new position by September.
If you are, like Bobbie or Janet, considering returning to work, take the above test and see if your score indicates that you are Ready to Return to Work. If you want a free evaluation of your answers, take the test on my website, being sure to put your name and email in the comments section to the first question, so that I can respond to you. Click here to take the test: http://www.actthree.com/news_and_events/take_the_back_to_work_readiness_test.html